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Conversation guide

How do families first approach the often difficult and tricky conversation of financial assistance for home buying?

Our research found that one of the biggest issues faced by a family is that the financial arrangement isn't documented and the exact terms of the financial support aren't clear.

Our simple guide can help both parents and adult children during these difficult discussions.

The guide covers:

  • Key points to help with the conversation

  • How to prepare for the discussion

  • Key questions and topics that need to be considered, along with space to write down what decision has been made and how both parties will proceed

  • Things to consider moving forward.

To find out more read our guide 'Bank of Mum an Dad - A conversation guide'.

     

     

     

     

     

     

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How to run the Bank of Mum and Dad

Our definitive guide on 'How to run the Bank of Mum and Dad' shows how it works and important things to consider.